The only Zen you’ll find on the top of mountains is the Zen you bring with you.
Robert Pirsig: Author of Zen and the Art of Motorcyle Repair
No matter where you go, there you are. Although this might seem like an ancient riddle and a very confusing concept, this is another of life’s intriguing laws that once learned can help you navigate its swirling waters. Modern society has us programmed to look outside ourselves to find happiness and unfortunately, this has us “Looking for love in all the wrong places.”
No matter how much you acquire in life, you can’t escape who you are. No material item or secluded getaway will ever free you from yourself. If you’re looking to find beauty and peace, then you must first be able to appreciate the beauty and peace that is inside of you.
On the other hand, if you are determined to feel bad, nothing is going to look appealing to you. If you are determined to be mad, nothing will put out the raging fire inside of you. In the end, it is you and you alone that hold the key to determining how you see and interact with the world.
This is when taking personal responsibility for your existence comes in. You have to be willing to look at your thoughts and actions and relentlessly assess how they are affecting your life. If you want happiness, start taking steps to make that happen.
If this means going for a walk, take a walk. If this means doing something kind to help a love one, then do it. Don’t do it because you are expected to, do it because it feels good and you want to continue that honest feeling of happiness. If you keep repeating these positive thoughts and actions, your body and mind will program itself to make these things available in everything that you do. It works the same way with negative thoughts and habits. If you immerse yourself in negative things, negative people, and negative attitudes, that is what you will feel and experience.
According to the movie, The Secret, our powers of manifestation is what brings our realities to life. Similar sentiments come from hip hop lyricist KRS-1, who once dropped rhymes about how we should be careful about what we think about, because what we think, we attract.
In other words, the way we think directly affects what we see and experience. With this in mind, logic suggests that we can change not only the way we feel, but also the way we live our lives if we are willing to accept responsibility for our thoughts and actions. If we follow this principal, logic also suggests that we are completely responsible for the way we live our lives.
Although at first this may sound like a lot of work and very difficult, following these principals actually frees us from the work of living outside of our code. A man who doesn’t lie and doesn’t steal is a man who can return a full wallet he finds at the airport because it is not his. He does not care about the money. He feels a responsibility to do the right thing and this is what moves him. This man is wealthy in so many ways, because he doesn’t worry about the mitigating circumstances. He just does what he knows is right. This is true freedom.
Taking responsibility for your thoughts and actions will lead you to want you want. By living your Tao, also known as following the middle path, you will free your mind and soul from things that would otherwise keep you from real happiness. You want the best, then believe you are worthy of receiving the best and take daily steps to make that happen. If you want good health, then take care of your body as the temple that it is. If you want to be wealthy, then take stock in what matters to you and then align your thoughts and actions to make it happen and last but certainly not least, if you want peace, then look at what you are doing to achieve it.
Remember that you are what you think you are!